Archive for March, 2008

29
Mar

It’s not just a job. It’s an adventure.

So I get home from work yesterday, and we have a few cocktails in the driveway with the neighbors as we normally do.  The evening is progressing nicely enough, and we even had company from our (sorta) new neighbor and my nephew agreed to pickup Mexican.  We decided on a bushel of chips, salsa, cilantro and a couple of large cheese dips.

An hour and a half and 56 bucks later (between the two houses), and here’s what we got:

two bowls each of cheese dip (the inch high little tubs)

A four ounce salsa

a four ounce “picko dee gallo” as my SIL said on the phone.

And half a sandwich bag of chips.  Seriously.  The other joint gives us a bushel of chips.  We ended up splitting about 27 chips among three people.

Which means I ended  supine on the sofa with my neighbors laughing at my snoring.

Fast forward to 4:30am.  I wake up on the loveseat, head upstairs, and get in bed just in time for PK to have a god damned duckfit for an hour and half.  High five again.

We fell asleep at 6am and got up at 7am.  Good times.  This boy better get some teeth with a fucking quickness, or this baby daddy gonna flip the hell out.

27
Mar

You put what on your what?!?!?!

In an homage to my new worldwide interweb friend Coal Miner’s Granddaughter, I have decided to throw down a shotgun style post covering many topics at a very shallow depth.

After bitching yesterday about 3doh’s inability to sleep, last night was nearly nirvana. Of course, nirvana cannot be achieve with three children. Ever. Unless they are all in their 40’s and you are dead.

The wife said a few magic words:

“Hey, do you know where the Orajel is?”

(Here is where you would insert that sound of someone running really fast as they scramble and slide thru the foyer towards the stairs, followed by the sound cartoon people make when they run very fast and the floor rolls up behind them).

I come running back downstairs and into the den, hands held high in victory, as I showed the wife two Orajels: one regular and one NIGHTTIME!

I was cautiously optimistic, but just in case, I let my excitement get the better of me and ejaculated a little bit…in my mind.

She rubbed some Orajel in his mouth as I put the other ones to bed, and when I came back downstairs, she said he was “in bed.”

That usual means 30-45 minutes until he’s mad and crying again, but not today baby.

The boy that wouldn’t sleep went down at 7pm and awoke at, and I wipe a tear from my eye as I type this, 3:30am, took a bottle, and slept again until 6:30am! I got so much fucking sleep that I was nearly delirious when I awoke.

Of course I left out the part where 2doh screamed several times and I eventually had to go get her and bring her to our bed, meaning that the boy’s sleep was tempered somewhat by the fact that I had an uber strong 2 year old kicking the shit out of me, but it was joyous nonetheless. No crying = a happy daddy.

So, I got in the shower this morning refreshed, revitalized and with my brain functioning at a speed that I would compare to watching two hummingbirds getting it on.

My first noted thought?

“Sweet Jesus. I am so happy that worked that I may have to masturbate with that Orajel. Nevermind. It’s all the way in the bedroom.”

Then I farted.

Last night we had garlic wings from Wild Wings and my fart smelled EXACTLY like the wings did, and that got me to wondering…

When you take a dump, it usually smells terrible. How is it that your body can take all of the good out of food and leave you this horrific presentation in form and appearance, yet you can eat a garlic wing or some eggs, and an hour later it smells like what you ate?

Anyway, the logical path of this thought was, what if your body took the bad stuff out and your dumps smelled like, say, grilled salmon or a nice thick ribeye or some mussels or something? How great would that be?

And that led to me thinking about peeing (because I was peeing) and I thought about that old urban legend about a chemical that would turn purple when you peed in the pool. Does that actually exist? I mean, I’m not bragging, but I pee in the pool every single time I go in the pool.

Yes. That’s right. I. Pee. In. The. Pool.

Fuck you. Your kid pees in the pool every time he / she gets in too. What’s the difference?

But since I can’t get any closure on the chemical rumor, I never take any chances. I always drift around, just barely skimming by some kids playing together. And I’m usually walking backwards. That way, if I see the purple cloud start, I’m pointing at those little uncivilized bastards that peed very near me. And my purple bathing suit.

Next, an American tragedy.

According to this story, one of the greatest American Heroes died yesterday.

Herb Peterson, 89 years young (and survived by fat fuckers like me that have had bypasses), was the inventor of the fast food item that literally changed the world:

The Egg McMuffin.

Now, you have to ignore a couple of facts. First, It’s name is wrong. It’s not an Egg McMuffin. It’s a Canadian Bacon Muffin with egg. They sell a sausage mcmuffin with egg, which means the meat is the variable and not the egg. But I guess back then, putting any breakfast sammich on a menu AND an english muffin was cutting edge stuff, so I’ll give the people from McDonald’s a pass on that. (I will NOT give them a pass on that fucking McRib. I’m guessing the guy that invented THAT abomination is in jail or Purgatory, as it was not ribs, but pressed hog anus with bbq sauce).

Even today, the egg mcmuffin is the perfect breakfast sammich. And it’s the healthiest thing calorie-wise on the menu.

I am sad. I may stop for one on the way to work tomorrow.

God bless you Herb Peterson.  You are an American hero.

And one final item.

Today was the day to do my expense reports from my trip to The Great White North.

I know.  I went in February.  But I’ve heard that the best way to have an accurate expense report is to put your receipts in a lot of different places and then wait a month to fill that shit out.

Anyway, as I was perusing my two week hotel bill, my eyes were drawn to the “incidentals.”  If I had just said incidentals, that would have meant phone calls, meals, and cough drops from the hotel store.  But “incidentals” means pay per view porn.

Fuck you.  You know you do it when you’re in a hotel alone.  Don’t judge me.  And I must say that the fact that hotels have now added digital television (ahem…fast forward and rewind) to your remote options has really enhanced the viewing experience.

So on two occasions, I decided to flip thru the menu of naughtiness. But then I remembered the rest of the story.

Over the middle weekend, I had a few beers and decided to select a film.  I did, watched it for about 15 minutes and fell asleep.  And no, by fell asleep I don’t mean masturbated or “combed my hair” or anything else.

The next morning I got my mid-week statement under the door.

I looked it over and was disgusted.  SOMEONE had ordered a movie that was thirty five fucking dollars!!

Turns out, the title I selected was intended for 24 hours of continued use instead of just one viewing.  I think it’s best that I didn’t know that. If they sent me to a cardiologist in Canada for a sinus infection and the flu, my groinal abrasions would’ve probably gotten me sent to a dentist>

26
Mar

The struggle to persevere

Not sleeping worth a shit. Night sweats are getting worse. 2doh is sick (again) and producing snot at a rate that is dumbfounding and near-vomit inducing. 3doh has gone from nearly sleeping thru the night to getting up three or four times and screaming bloody farking murder if you try to lay him down in his crib, on the floor, or even a dumpster behind the Quickie Mart.

Sorry. I was obviously kidding there. I’d never put him on the floor.

The wife’s getting hammered at work and the kids are nuts. The second she picks up the phone, everyone wants to talk and the second she isn’t on a work call, everybody wants to crawl back into the vajayjay from whence they came.

If by some act of God 3doh has gotten any meaningful and continuous sleep, the others won’t. If the others sleep until 8am, he’s up at 4:30am, and that’s almost always called Saturday or Sunday.

The eldest is continuing on her quest to never wear panties, saying “they go up my bum,” and it’s driving me batshit crazy. Our family is many things. A house full of commandos we are not. We may drink too much, play pull my finger, worship too little and eat too much but we will never ever be people that don’t wear underwear outside of the house.

And how, you might ask, does she protest wearing her underwear?

As soon as you turn your back, she goes inside her pants with both hands and pulls down her panties to about mid-thigh.

Now, those of you without kids may think this odd or difficult to detect. But my 1doh is a string bean and she wears those pocketless kid pants that aren’t jeans, so it’s pretty easy to see that either she’s pulled her panties down again or she has shit an innertube that’s grown around her body.

So I say, “Pull up your underpants.” She grimaces and pulls them up, but most of the time, like this morning, when I leave the room to warm up the car or go get coffee, I come back to find the telltale wad around her thighs.

Again I say “PULL UP YOUR UNDERPANTS!”

Same look. Same result. I think she does it as soon as she’s on the bus too. Like the girls in high school that left home looking angelic but, by the time they got to school were dressed and made up like whores.

You might be asking yourself “Hey. Why doesn’t this dumbass try some other kinds, sizes, styles, etc?”

First of all, fuck you. Don’t you think I’ve thought of that? She is a size fivish gal. 42 pounds of defiance. I’ve tried size four, size five and size six. I’ve bought her bikini cut, brief cut, lowrise, brief, granny, and even a sort of boxer-brief cut. I’ve gone in and cleaned off and endcap of panties, and considering our Orwellian times, you can bet that my name’s on some fucking list as a 39 year old dood buying little girl’s panties by the armful.

We’ve threatened to let her wear only dresses. We’ve threatened punishment. We’ve promised gifts. Nothing works. And I’m on the verge of being recognized as a non-registered sex offender.

Please help…

20
Mar

A moment of silence if you please

James Emerson (Jim) Baker, 69, of Saint Simmons Island, Georgia, died March 17, 2008.

Born in Michigan in 1938, the son of Emerson and Vivian Baker, he also lived in Ohio, Mississippi, and Florida before his family settled in Tucker, Georgia in 1949. He graduated from Tucker High School, Oxford College in 1958, Emory University in 1960, and Emory University School of Law in 1963.

While in law school he served as Director of Debate for Emory University. In addition, he was the Georgia Director of the Civilian Health and Medical Program for Uniformed Services (CHAMPUS).

Upon graduating he accepted a commission in the U.S. Army. During his five years of active duty he served in Washington, D.C.; Fort Sam Houston, Texas; Denver, Colorado; Fort Campbell, Kentucky; The Judge Advocate General’s School, Charlottesville, Virginia; Vietnam, and Fort M cPherson, Georgia. He was a graduate of the U.S. Army’s Military Judge Course; the four-week General Jurisdiction Course at the National Judicial College; and the National Defense University.

Upon release from active duty he immediately joined the active Army Reserve, where he served for another 21 years until he transferred to the Retired Reserve in 1989. He was promoted from lieutenant to full colonel.

His dozen military decorations include the Bronze Star for his actions while serving in Vietnam.

In civilian life he served as an Assistant District Attorney in Dekalb County, Georgia, before joining the federal government in 1972 as a Special Assistant U.S. Attorney with the Office for Drug Abuse Law Enforcement. In 1974 he became an Assistant U.S. Attorney (AUSA) in Atlanta.

In 1977 he was promoted to Chief of the Criminal Division and during 1981 and 1982 he was the court-appointed United States Attorney. Subsequently he reverted to his status as an AUSA and was one of 12 government attorneys selected nation-wide to serve as Temporary Federal Immigration Judges for up to two years. In 1987 he was selected to serve as the U.S. Department of Justice, Executive Office for United States Attorneys legal representative at the Federal Law Enforcement Training Center (FLETC) in Glynco (Brunswick), Georgia. There he developed and taught criminal law courses.

In 1996 he was appointed to serve as Chief of the Legal Division at FLETC. He retired from government service in 1998 but continued to teach criminal justice courses for Troy University as well as the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency.

During his career he taught criminal law to more than 20,000 federal, state and local law enforcement agents and criminal justice students.

Married in 1964, he is survived by his wife, Sharon; a son, Paul, Roswell, Georgia; a daughter, Alison, and two grandsons, Kyle and Keith, all of Saint Simons Island, Georgia; and a nephew, Joe Scarborough, Schoolcraft, Michigan. A memorial service will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, March 22, 2008, at Wesley United Methodist Church at Frederica. The memorial will be followed by a graveside service in Atlanta, GA. in April. Contributions to the Hospice of the Golden Isles, 1692 Glynco Parkway, Brunswick, GA 31525. Edo Miller Funeral Home.
Published in The Atlanta Journal-Constitution on 3/20/2008.

I’ve known The Colonel (I never called him Mr. Baker or Jim after he was promoted to Colonel), and I never once heard him talk about nor did I know that he won the Bronze Star.

The obituary fails to mention (for some reason I’m sure) that The Colonel also spent a couple of years in the late 80’s and early 90’s where he would lecture Congress and some congressional committees about terrorism.

I am proud to say that I considered this man both a friend and family to me. I will miss him.

18
Mar

Priorities

So today I made a post hammering stupid borrowers and lamenting my dad’s fate and his lot in life.

I got an email a few minutes ago from someone that I was / am friends with to degree.  It seems that my best friend from high school’s dad passed away yesterday.

The Colonel (he had been a full bird Colonel in Vietnam) was a lawyer and, at one time, the Assistant US Attorney for our area.  He successfully prosecuted Mike Thevis, a mob connected porn peddler who later escaped from jail and murdered the guy that rolled on him.  The Colonel also spent years training Federal Agents in many different fields the ins and outs  of making cases, gathering evidence, testifying and more.

I don’t know if his son reads this or not, or if he even cares.  I am truly sorry for you and your family’s loss.  Your father was a good and decent man.  He was a smart man that made a difference on this planet, and he was as good of a surrogate father as I could hope for when I needed one.

I wish you and your family peace and perspective in this very difficult time.




 

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